| 1. At this moment is there someone you are thinking about? |
Yes, always. |
| 2. Do you think that they are thinking about you? |
More than likely. |
| 3. At times do you find yourself getting jealous over silly things? |
Not so much, I used to though. |
| 4. Do you think your partner has too many friends of the opposite sex? |
Nah. |
| 5. Have you ever had a true adult relationship? |
Yes. |
| 6. How do you know? |
We're not teenagers, we're mature and responsible, and we are committed to each other. |
| 7. So you believe that sex is the main part of an adult relationship? |
Sex should never be the main part of any relationship. Within marriage, it is definitely an important part, but making it the focus of the relationship is really out of balance. |
| 8. Do you believe you should be married before having sex? |
Yes. |
| 9. What age differnce is too much? |
That's up to each person to decide for themselves. |
| 10. Is important to you that your parents like your partner? |
It's nice. |
| 11. Would you live with someone before you get married? |
No. |
| 12. What is the one thing you could not stand for if you lived together? |
If we lived together, i.e., were married, cheating is the one thing I would have a very hard time taking. |
| 13. Do you believe if one of you were to get pregnant you should get married? |
I think that would simply display a lack of self control, and marrying someone when you both cannot control yourselves doesn't seem to me to be ideal. But I don't have a definite opinion on that. |
| 14. What if you were already planning to get married? |
It all depends. |
| 15. Do you think the first year together is the hardest? |
I've always heard it is. |
| 16. If someone were to offer you money to stay away from the one you loved...how much would it take? |
Heh, they can forget it. |
| 17. Do you think they have a price to stay away from you? |
No way. |
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| 18. Do you think long distance relationships work? |
They do... but it's hard. |
| 19. Have you ever had to be in one? |
Yes. |
| 20. Do friends get in the way of you and your partner? |
No, our friends are pretty good. |
| 21. Is it their friends or yours? |
If anything, mine probably. But there haven't been any instances yet, really. |
| 22. What is the biggest stress in your relationship? |
The distance. |
| 23. What is the cause? |
Living seven hours away from each other. |
| 24. Is there anything you could do to rid your relationship of that stress? |
Yeah... just have to wait a little longer. |
| 25. Would you stay with someone that didn't want to get married? |
I don't know... I would want to, but knowing we would never be married would be very hard to accept. |
| 26. Would you live with someone and have children with them if they were not going to marry you? |
No. |
| 27. Do you seem to keep coming back to the same partner over and over again? |
Haha, haven't left yet and I don't intend to. |
| 28. What is it about them that keeps bringing you back? |
See above. |
| 29. What is the one reason to break up with someone? |
I'm sure there are many valid reasons. |
| 30. Have you ever broken up with someone just so you could date someone else? |
That's disgusting! No. |
| 31. What is a good amount of time to wait between relationships? |
However long is needed, I don't have an opinion. |
| 32. Do you normaly have a rebound person? |
No. |
| 33. Does the last person to break your heart know they broke your heart? |
My dad did, and he knows. |
| 34. How did they do it? |
By leaving. |
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| 35. Just how much time does it take a broken heart to heal? |
A long time. |
| 36. Do you think that in a real relationship the person should know everything about you? |
I think information should gradually be divulged more and more... but there's no way anyone can know someone completely. |
| 37. Should you know everything about them? |
See above. |
| 38. How long do you have to know someone before you try new things in bed with them? |
Once you're married... bring it on! |
| 39. Is there things that you have done with someone you would never do with someone else? |
Yeah. |
| 40. Are there things that you will never do period? |
Yeah. |
| 41. Are you with a person right now that you feel safe enough to try anything with? |
Are we still talking about sex? I would feel safe enough, but last I checked, we're not married. |
| 42. Have you ever felt pressure to do something you didn't really want to do? |
No. |
| 43. Where you ever worried that if you didn't they would leave you? |
Heh, no way. |
| 44. Have you ever done anything just so that the other person wouldn't leave? (doesn't have to be sexual) |
No. |
| 45. Did they leave anyway? |
No, geez. |
| 46. What are you doing differently in this relationship that you think will help it work? |
It's going just fine as it is, thank you. |
| 47. Has it helped so far? |
See above. |
| 48. Do you see this relationship lasting? |
Yes, definitely. |
| 49. Where you more picky about who to date due to your past relationships? |
I would never be in a relationship with just anyone, no matter how many past ones I had or not. |
| 50. Do you still have emotional hangups due to past relationships? |
That's kinda n/a. |
| 51. Have they caused problems in you current relastionship? |
See above. |
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| 52. Does you partner have hangups? |
No. |
| 53. Have they caused problems? |
See above. |
| 54. Does the amount of people your partner has been with bother you? |
If such were the case, then yes. |
| 55. Is it more or less than your own number? |
Sheesh. |
| 56. Are you okay with only being with one person the rest of your life? |
Am I okay... am I okay??? What do you think I want, 10 million hot studs? No thank you, I'll take one guy who loves me, and I'll stick with him for a nice long time. |
| 57. If your partner asked you to allow them to see others what would you say? |
He wouldn't. |
| 58. Would you want to have an open relationship? |
Absolutely not. |
| 59. How important is trust in a relationship to you? |
It's right at the top. |
| 60. Once you loose that do you think you could ever get it back? |
Probably not. |
| 61. What would you do if you found out your partner had cheated on you? |
I'd be torn to pieces and I wouldn't know what to do. |
| 62. Have you ever been cheated on? |
No. |
| 63. Have you ever cheated on someone? |
No. |
| 64. Thought about cheating on someone? |
No. |
| 65. Is thinking about it just as bad as doing it? |
Not quite. |
| 66. Would you mind if you partner went out with someone of the opposite sex (as friends) regularly without you? |
Yes. |
| 67. Would you ask them to stop if it did? |
I would mention my feelings about it, and I know that he would care about them. |
| 68. Do you think they would? |
Yes. |
| 69. If given the opportunity is there one person you would want to have a second chance with? |
Nope. |
| 70. Looking over this do you still believe that you have or have not had a true adult relationship? |
Yes, I do. |