| *** These question are serious and will help in writing several articles and a book I am preparing. *** |
| 1. Please rate the following statements by how you would apply them to yourself, and as honestly as possible. |
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| *** You may choose more than one in each category *** |
| 2. but answer as simply as possible. |
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| 3. If you would like to write an explanation for your answers, you may. |
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| 4. All responses will be kept confidential. |
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| *** Self-Image: *** |
| 5. I am a Hottie |
Hello yes |
| 6. I am Eye Candy |
Sweet |
| 7. I am Beautiful |
Hello for sure |
| 8. I am Good Looking |
2 good looking i can't stand myself |
| 9. I am Okay |
better then ok |
| 10. I am Not Attractive |
Words can't explain |
| 11. I am Fat |
full body but losing it |
| 12. I am a MILF |
Heck No!! |
| 13. Other:___________ |
Exotic |
| *** I Dress the Way I Do, Because: *** |
| 14. I feel like it |
Because my style is phenomenal |
| 15. I want to |
Shop all day |
| 16. I need to |
Go 2 the mall |
| 17. I feel powerful when I do |
feel Good about myself |
| 18. I love what I wear |
because I have style |
| 19. I like the response I get, even if it's not the response I want |
Whatever |
| 20. Other:___________ |
Best dress in high school |
| *** I Like It When: *** |
| 21. Men look at my Pictures on MySpace |
No. (Married) but understand i'm fine |
| 22. Men get "excited" over my pictures on MySpace |
Sicko |
| 23. Men relate to me as a desirable female |
Used 2 |
| 24. Men leave me messages about how "Hot" I am |
My Hubby is enough |
| 25. Men pay any attention at all to me |
Yes. Hubby thats all I need |
| 26. Men leave me alone |
Wedding ring keeps them away |
| 27. Other:___________ |
Happily |
| *** It Bothers Me When: *** |
| 28. I am posing in a way to illicit a response from men in pictures |
Don't need 2 I'm fine all be myself |
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| 29. I men judge me as an object |
My hubby can't get enough of me |
| 30. I am treated as less than special |
Never |
| 31. People don't seem to see the "real me" |
My hubby see the real me |
| 32. Other:___________ |
To fine for words |
| *** I am Happiest When: *** |
| 33. I am appreciated |
Yes thank God I am! |
| 34. I am treated with respect |
Yes ! |
| 35. I am acknowledged |
Always! |
| 36. I am loved |
Yes I am! |
| 37. I am sexy |
Wow 2 sexy |
| 38. I am shopping |
Love 2 |
| 39. I am successful |
Getting there |
| 40. Other:___________ |
I'm appreciated |
| *** What I Need Most in Life to Feel Fulfilled is: *** |
| 41. Love |
I'm Greatly Love |
| 42. Respect |
Yes! behind ever Great man is a Great woman |
| 43. Happiness |
2 happy |
| 44. Sex |
Yummy that's all u need 2 know |
| 45. Money |
Comfortable |
| 46. Clothes |
Spoiled |
| 47. A Hug |
Everyday |
| 48. Other:___________ |
My hubby is good 2 me |
| *** The Biggest "Pain" I Deal With is Because I was/Have Been *** |
| 49. Lied to |
Friends. that 's why I don't have many |
| 50. Hurt |
Yes! people who pretend |
| 51. Abandoned |
No. God's promise |
| 52. Injured |
Yes |
| 53. Raped |
No! Thank God |
| 54. Victimized as a Child |
No comment |
| 55. Heartbroken |
Not anymore |
| 56. Other:___________ |
No more pain thank u Lord |
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| *** I deal with the Following: *** |
| 57. Addiction to medications/drugs (prescription or otherwise) |
No! Never, kills the brain cells |
| 58. Alcohol |
Used 2. But not a alcoholic |
| 59. Over-eating |
No |
| 60. Temper/Anger |
Sweet always |
| 61. Depression |
No Nothing 2 be depressed about . Im living |
| 62. Other:___________ |
Thank u JESUS |
| *** My Biggest Fear Is: *** |
| 63. I won’t be a success |
Sometimes |
| 64. I won’t be taken seriously |
Sometimes |
| 65. I’ll go unnoticed |
never that move |
| 66. I won't be a good wife |
I'm a Great wife |
| 67. I won't be a good mother |
I'm a Great Mommy |
| 68. I will never find a partner in life |
Found one that makes me happy |
| 69. I made a mistake getting together with the one I'm with (married or not) |
No mistakes |
| 70. I will never get married |
Married |
| 71. I will never find a partner who is "worthy of me" |
My hubby is worthy of me. He knows what He's got |
| 72. I am not worthy of being loved by someone |
You have got 2 be kidding me |
| 73. My children will not be well adjusted |
With God's help. Always |
| 74. I am going to hurt my children |
No! Never |
| 75. I am going to hurt myself (or hurt myself again) |
HELLO! I love myself |
| 76. I am a powerful person |
Yes I am!!! IN GOD |
| 77. I will be successful |
Yes ! I will With GOD 'S help |
| 78. I will not know how to handle success when it comes |
I will |
| 79. I am afraid of people |
ONLY FAKES, never know how evil they are |
| 80. I am afraid of going outside |
Are u kidding |
| 81. I am afraid of speaking in public |
Not really. I LIKE 2 in church |
| 82. I am afraid of being raped (or raped again) |
HELLO, Who Is'nt |
| 83. Other:___________ (see this list for some examples: http://www.phobialist.com/reverse.html) |
GOD IS MY SHIELD |
| *** I Prefer the Company of: *** |
| 84. Men |
MY Hubby He's real |
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| 85. Women |
NO THANK U, unless its my mother in law or my mommy |
| 86. Teens |
MY daughter London |
| 87. Children |
YES MY BABIES |
| 88. Girls |
Hello |
| 89. Boys |
My nephews |
| 90. Elderly |
MY grandma when she was here :( |
| 91. Other:___________ |
I love my life |
| *** I My Perfect World I Would Be: *** |
| 92. A Model |
Been there done that. I was the model back in the days |
| 93. A Singer/Musician |
Yes I sing in church |
| 94. An Actor |
Could have been |
| 95. A Director |
I direct my Kids each day With the Help of GOD |
| 96. A Manager |
YES I manage my home each day |
| 97. A Mother |
THE BEST IN THE WORLD. I THINK |
| 98. A Bride |
A GORGEOUS ONE |
| 99. Loved by Anyone |
I THINK SO, IF YOUR NOT A HATER |
| 100. Loved by Someone |
HELLO MY HUBBY AND KIDS |
| 101. Find love that was real and lasting |
ITS BEEN 8 YEARS, DOING SOMETHING RIGHT!! |
| 102. Other:___________ |
I LOVE MY FAMILY |