| *** These question are serious and will help in writing several articles and a book I am preparing. *** |
| 1. Please rate the following statements by how you would apply them to yourself, and as honestly as possible. |
Okey dokey, looking forward to helping... |
| *** You may choose more than one in each category *** |
| 2. but answer as simply as possible. |
Got it. |
| 3. If you would like to write an explanation for your answers, you may. |
Okay, let's go... |
| 4. All responses will be kept confidential. |
Thanks. |
| *** Self-Image: *** |
| 5. I am a Hottie |
I can be when I try. |
| 6. I am Eye Candy |
Eh, not so much. |
| 7. I am Beautiful |
I believe so. |
| 8. I am Good Looking |
Yes, I am. |
| 9. I am Okay |
I am better than okay. |
| 10. I am Not Attractive |
No, that's a lie. |
| 11. I am Fat |
Nah, I have a little pudge, but it adds character... |
| 12. I am a MILF |
Nope, I have no kids. |
| 13. Other:___________ |
N/A |
| *** I Dress the Way I Do, Because: *** |
| 14. I feel like it |
Definitely. |
| 15. I want to |
Exactly. |
| 16. I need to |
No, unless I am working, because then I have a uniform... |
| 17. I feel powerful when I do |
Not at all. |
| 18. I love what I wear |
Yes. |
| 19. I like the response I get, even if it's not the response I want |
Nah, I don't look for responses... |
| 20. Other:___________ |
Nope. |
| *** I Like It When: *** |
| 21. Men look at my Pictures on MySpace |
Yeah, sure. |
| 22. Men get "excited" over my pictures on MySpace |
Umm, not so much, I think that's kinda gross... |
| 23. Men relate to me as a desirable female |
Sure, as long as they are not overly pig-ish about it... |
| 24. Men leave me messages about how "Hot" I am |
No, I don't like that. |
| 25. Men pay any attention at all to me |
Sure, I like guys' attention... |
| 26. Men leave me alone |
Yeah, when they are completely overbearing and obsessive, I wish they would... |
| 27. Other:___________ |
Guys are pigs and look at girls as pieces of meat and it makes me sick. |
| *** It Bothers Me When: *** |
| 28. I am posing in a way to illicit a response from men in pictures |
I never pose that way, so that's not applicable... |
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| 29. I men judge me as an object |
It can be okay... like when I am judging him as an object right back... |
| 30. I am treated as less than special |
Oh, yeah, that bothers me... |
| 31. People don't seem to see the "real me" |
Eh, I don't really care what they see... I know who I am and that's what counts... |
| 32. Other:___________ |
No. |
| *** I am Happiest When: *** |
| 33. I am appreciated |
As long as it's someone who means something to me... otherwise I don't care... |
| 34. I am treated with respect |
Yes, I think everyone should be respected unless they give reason not to be. |
| 35. I am acknowledged |
Sure. |
| 36. I am loved |
Of course, everyone loves to be loved. |
| 37. I am sexy |
Eh, only if I am trying for it at that moment, which is rare... |
| 38. I am shopping |
Oh, definitely... Shopping can cure any blues. |
| 39. I am successful |
Yes, I am way too critical of myself, so it's nice to succeed. |
| 40. Other:___________ |
Not much... |
| *** What I Need Most in Life to Feel Fulfilled is: *** |
| 41. Love |
By family and friends... not dudes... |
| 42. Respect |
I can go without if need be. |
| 43. Happiness |
I don't know that I believe in the concept much. |
| 44. Sex |
Nah, once in a while, sure, but it's never something I crave. |
| 45. Money |
So long as I can pay the bills... I don't need to be a millionaire or anything... |
| 46. Clothes |
No, I need clothes. I am a close whore... |
| 47. A Hug |
Aww, I love hugs. :-) |
| 48. Other:___________ |
I need my puppy. |
| *** The Biggest "Pain" I Deal With is Because I was/Have Been *** |
| 49. Lied to |
Yeah, that is never fun. |
| 50. Hurt |
I hang on to past hurts and it defnitely has an affect on my present... |
| 51. Abandoned |
Nah. |
| 52. Injured |
Not physically, |
| 53. Raped |
Eew, bad... |
| 54. Victimized as a Child |
How do you define victimized? I mean, I didn't exactly have a warm and happy Brady bunch childhood... |
| 55. Heartbroken |
Indeed. |
| 56. Other:___________ |
I don't trust anyone anymore... |
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| *** I deal with the Following: *** |
| 57. Addiction to medications/drugs (prescription or otherwise) |
I have my on and off moments. |
| 58. Alcohol |
Nah, when I was younger, but now it's very ocassional... |
| 59. Over-eating |
Oh, I love to indulge... |
| 60. Temper/Anger |
I am a taurus... It's not completely unexpected... |
| 61. Depression |
Not as much as I used to. |
| 62. Other:___________ |
I am just simply neurotic... Very anxious, withdrawn, and fearfull. |
| *** My Biggest Fear Is: *** |
| 63. I won’t be a success |
That is definitely up there on my list of biggest fears, yeah. |
| 64. I won’t be taken seriously |
Nope, don't care. |
| 65. I’ll go unnoticed |
Nah, I would rather be hidden in the background usually. |
| 66. I won't be a good wife |
I do not plan to get married... ever... |
| 67. I won't be a good mother |
I don't think I want kids. |
| 68. I will never find a partner in life |
Nope. I don't believe that relationships ever work out right. |
| 69. I made a mistake getting together with the one I'm with (married or not) |
Yeah, that's why I refuse to commit anymore. |
| 70. I will never get married |
I don't want to. |
| 71. I will never find a partner who is "worthy of me" |
Eh, I always go for the ones who aren't and I am fully aware of that. |
| 72. I am not worthy of being loved by someone |
Oh, no I am... |
| 73. My children will not be well adjusted |
No one is well adjusted these days... |
| 74. I am going to hurt my children |
No, I will be totally loving if I have kids. |
| 75. I am going to hurt myself (or hurt myself again) |
No, I fear allowing myself to get hurt, but not hurting myself... |
| 76. I am a powerful person |
Not really. |
| 77. I will be successful |
I will. |
| 78. I will not know how to handle success when it comes |
Nah, I'll be cool. |
| 79. I am afraid of people |
Yes because they all have alterior motives and are only out for themselves... |
| 80. I am afraid of going outside |
Very often, yes. |
| 81. I am afraid of speaking in public |
Reasonably... but like all people, I get over it. |
| 82. I am afraid of being raped (or raped again) |
No. |
| 83. Other:___________ (see this list for some examples: http://www.phobialist.com/reverse.html) |
I strictly fear pain (getting mugged, getting in a car accident... etc.) |
| *** I Prefer the Company of: *** |
| 84. Men |
Yes. |
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| 85. Women |
Not really. |
| 86. Teens |
Nope. |
| 87. Children |
I used to, but now they try my patience. |
| 88. Girls |
No. |
| 89. Boys |
They are cooler than girls... |
| 90. Elderly |
Some of them. |
| 91. Other:___________ |
Animals. |
| *** I My Perfect World I Would Be: *** |
| 92. A Model |
Oh, I wish! |
| 93. A Singer/Musician |
Nah. |
| 94. An Actor |
Not at all. |
| 95. A Director |
Nope. |
| 96. A Manager |
No. |
| 97. A Mother |
Don't think so... |
| 98. A Bride |
No way. |
| 99. Loved by Anyone |
Sure. |
| 100. Loved by Someone |
Yes. |
| 101. Find love that was real and lasting |
No such thing. |
| 102. Other:___________ |
I wanna be a doctor. |
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