| *** These question are serious and will help in writing several articles and a book I am preparing. *** |
| 1. Please rate the following statements by how you would apply them to yourself, and as honestly as possible. |
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| *** You may choose more than one in each category *** |
| 2. but answer as simply as possible. |
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| 3. If you would like to write an explanation for your answers, you may. |
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| 4. All responses will be kept confidential. |
No Answer |
| *** Self-Image: *** |
| 5. I am a Hottie |
i'm very much a hottie. when i choose to be. |
| 6. I am Eye Candy |
sometimes. |
| 7. I am Beautiful |
absolutely. |
| 8. I am Good Looking |
for the most part, yes. |
| 9. I am Okay |
i'm very okay |
| 10. I am Not Attractive |
i'm attractive. |
| 11. I am Fat |
not really. i'm not skinny, but i'm not fat. |
| 12. I am a MILF |
no, i'm not. |
| 13. Other:___________ |
i feel i'm attractive and beautiful in more ways than one |
| *** I Dress the Way I Do, Because: *** |
| 14. I feel like it |
absolutely |
| 15. I want to |
yep. |
| 16. I need to |
this applies to work, yes. |
| 17. I feel powerful when I do |
absolutely not. |
| 18. I love what I wear |
very much so |
| 19. I like the response I get, even if it's not the response I want |
any response is nice, yes. |
| 20. Other:___________ |
i dress for comfort when i'm home, i dress for comfort and to impress otherwise |
| *** I Like It When: *** |
| 21. Men look at my Pictures on MySpace |
i like it when anyone looks at my pictures. |
| 22. Men get "excited" over my pictures on MySpace |
i'm not sure how i feel about that... |
| 23. Men relate to me as a desirable female |
its rare, but its nice when it happens |
| 24. Men leave me messages about how "Hot" I am |
lol i've never gotten that. |
| 25. Men pay any attention at all to me |
it depends on the kind of attention |
| 26. Men leave me alone |
no. i love hanging with the guys and flirting with the boys |
| 27. Other:___________ |
i'm a flirt, but i'm not really used to attention outside of friendship |
| *** It Bothers Me When: *** |
| 28. I am posing in a way to illicit a response from men in pictures |
i don't do that, so... |
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| 29. I men judge me as an object |
absolutely. |
| 30. I am treated as less than special |
only when i'm treated like crap do i get annoyed |
| 31. People don't seem to see the "real me" |
i'm pretty real around people |
| 32. Other:___________ |
No Answer |
| *** I am Happiest When: *** |
| 33. I am appreciated |
i love appreciation, yes |
| 34. I am treated with respect |
its nice, yes |
| 35. I am acknowledged |
depends on the form |
| 36. I am loved |
being loved is wonderful, yes |
| 37. I am sexy |
i love feeling sexy, yes |
| 38. I am shopping |
i'm not big on shopping...but its growing on me |
| 39. I am successful |
i'm happy when things fall into place, yes |
| 40. Other:___________ |
No Answer |
| *** What I Need Most in Life to Feel Fulfilled is: *** |
| 41. Love |
it would be nice to find love... |
| 42. Respect |
sure |
| 43. Happiness |
absolutely |
| 44. Sex |
this isn't really that important to me |
| 45. Money |
i just need enough to take care of things and live |
| 46. Clothes |
well...i kinda need clothes. but i don't need anything flashy |
| 47. A Hug |
i do need those... |
| 48. Other:___________ |
No Answer |
| *** The Biggest "Pain" I Deal With is Because I was/Have Been *** |
| 49. Lied to |
it isn't a pain. i get angry when i'm lied to |
| 50. Hurt |
i have been hurt. but i'm a big girl. i deal and move on |
| 51. Abandoned |
i've never abandoned. not really, anyway |
| 52. Injured |
lol all my injuries are my fault. i'm such a klutz |
| 53. Raped |
never. |
| 54. Victimized as a Child |
no. |
| 55. Heartbroken |
every normal person goes through heartbreak. |
| 56. Other:___________ |
No Answer |
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| *** I deal with the Following: *** |
| 57. Addiction to medications/drugs (prescription or otherwise) |
nope. |
| 58. Alcohol |
i hardly ever drink |
| 59. Over-eating |
i used to...i still struggle with it |
| 60. Temper/Anger |
i do have a temper, but i keep it in check |
| 61. Depression |
absolutely. |
| 62. Other:___________ |
No Answer |
| *** My Biggest Fear Is: *** |
| 63. I won’t be a success |
that's not my fear, no. i would like success, but its not necessary |
| 64. I won’t be taken seriously |
lol that's definitely not a fear |
| 65. I’ll go unnoticed |
i'm used to working in the background. but recognition would be nice... |
| 66. I won't be a good wife |
i do worry about this, but its not my biggest fear |
| 67. I won't be a good mother |
again i worry, but its not a fear |
| 68. I will never find a partner in life |
once again, its a worry. not a fear |
| 69. I made a mistake getting together with the one I'm with (married or not) |
i'm not with anyone. |
| 70. I will never get married |
worry, not fear. |
| 71. I will never find a partner who is "worthy of me" |
no, i won't find a partner i'm worthy of. |
| 72. I am not worthy of being loved by someone |
this is kind of a fear of mine |
| 73. My children will not be well adjusted |
nope |
| 74. I am going to hurt my children |
definitely not |
| 75. I am going to hurt myself (or hurt myself again) |
no |
| 76. I am a powerful person |
i'm not a powerful person |
| 77. I will be successful |
this is definitely not a fear |
| 78. I will not know how to handle success when it comes |
i worry about this |
| 79. I am afraid of people |
i'm definitely not afraid of people |
| 80. I am afraid of going outside |
i like going outside. i just don't do it often enough |
| 81. I am afraid of speaking in public |
i HATE speaking in public |
| 82. I am afraid of being raped (or raped again) |
nope |
| 83. Other:___________ (see this list for some examples: http://www.phobialist.com/reverse.html) |
i'm afraid of being completely surrounded by people with no way out. |
| *** I Prefer the Company of: *** |
| 84. Men |
i tend to spend most of my time with men. |
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| 85. Women |
i like their company, but being in my area of study, they're aren't very plentiful |
| 86. Teens |
i tend to avoid them |
| 87. Children |
kids are cool. but i don't spend time with them |
| 88. Girls |
i tend to avoid girls between the ages of 9 and 17. |
| 89. Boys |
i tend to ingore boys lol |
| 90. Elderly |
i feel comfortable around them, yes |
| 91. Other:___________ |
No Answer |
| *** I My Perfect World I Would Be: *** |
| 92. A Model |
LOL heck no |
| 93. A Singer/Musician |
nah. i can't sing |
| 94. An Actor |
i've daydreamed about it, but i fail at acting |
| 95. A Director |
i wouldn't mind... |
| 96. A Manager |
no. |
| 97. A Mother |
someday |
| 98. A Bride |
someday |
| 99. Loved by Anyone |
not "anyone"... |
| 100. Loved by Someone |
this is what i want |
| 101. Find love that was real and lasting |
this is what i want most |
| 102. Other:___________ |
No Answer |