| *** These question are serious and will help in writing several articles and a book I am preparing. *** |
| 1. Please rate the following statements by how you would apply them to yourself, and as honestly as possible. |
ok |
| *** You may choose more than one in each category *** |
| 2. but answer as simply as possible. |
alright |
| 3. If you would like to write an explanation for your answers, you may. |
eh |
| 4. All responses will be kept confidential. |
cool |
| *** Self-Image: *** |
| 5. I am a Hottie |
5 - I don't feel like I am. |
| 6. I am Eye Candy |
4 |
| 7. I am Beautiful |
2 |
| 8. I am Good Looking |
1 |
| 9. I am Okay |
3 |
| 10. I am Not Attractive |
6 - I feel unattractive when I compare myself to other girls. |
| 11. I am Fat |
7 - I feel anorexic when I look in the mirror but when I look at myself w/o a mirror I feel fat. |
| 12. I am a MILF |
8 - ew |
| 13. Other:___________ |
n/a |
| *** I Dress the Way I Do, Because: *** |
| 14. I feel like it |
2 |
| 15. I want to |
3 |
| 16. I need to |
7 |
| 17. I feel powerful when I do |
6 |
| 18. I love what I wear |
4 |
| 19. I like the response I get, even if it's not the response I want |
5 |
| 20. Other:___________ |
1 - I want to express my true emotions through my appearance. |
| *** I Like It When: *** |
| 21. Men look at my Pictures on MySpace |
6 |
| 22. Men get "excited" over my pictures on MySpace |
5 |
| 23. Men relate to me as a desirable female |
3 - Definitely. |
| 24. Men leave me messages about how "Hot" I am |
4 - It makes me feel more confident about my looks. |
| 25. Men pay any attention at all to me |
1 - I love it. |
| 26. Men leave me alone |
7 |
| 27. Other:___________ |
2 - Men tell me I am beautiful. |
| *** It Bothers Me When: *** |
| 28. I am posing in a way to illicit a response from men in pictures |
4 - I would like to get a positive response without having to act a certain way to impress men. |
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| 29. I men judge me as an object |
3 |
| 30. I am treated as less than special |
2 |
| 31. People don't seem to see the "real me" |
1 |
| 32. Other:___________ |
n/a |
| *** I am Happiest When: *** |
| 33. I am appreciated |
3 |
| 34. I am treated with respect |
7 |
| 35. I am acknowledged |
4 |
| 36. I am loved |
1 |
| 37. I am sexy |
2 |
| 38. I am shopping |
6 |
| 39. I am successful |
5 |
| 40. Other:___________ |
n/a |
| *** What I Need Most in Life to Feel Fulfilled is: *** |
| 41. Love |
1 |
| 42. Respect |
6 |
| 43. Happiness |
2 |
| 44. Sex |
4 |
| 45. Money |
7 |
| 46. Clothes |
5 |
| 47. A Hug |
3 |
| 48. Other:___________ |
n/a |
| *** The Biggest "Pain" I Deal With is Because I was/Have Been *** |
| 49. Lied to |
4 |
| 50. Hurt |
3 |
| 51. Abandoned |
2 |
| 52. Injured |
5 |
| 53. Raped |
n/a |
| 54. Victimized as a Child |
n/a |
| 55. Heartbroken |
1 |
| 56. Other:___________ |
n/a |
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| *** I deal with the Following: *** |
| 57. Addiction to medications/drugs (prescription or otherwise) |
n/a |
| 58. Alcohol |
n/a |
| 59. Over-eating |
3 - I don't eat for a period of time but then I over-indulge later. |
| 60. Temper/Anger |
2 |
| 61. Depression |
1 - This has change my life completely. |
| 62. Other:___________ |
n/a |
| *** My Biggest Fear Is: *** |
| 63. I won’t be a success |
6 |
| 64. I won’t be taken seriously |
16 |
| 65. I’ll go unnoticed |
13 |
| 66. I won't be a good wife |
4 |
| 67. I won't be a good mother |
5 |
| 68. I will never find a partner in life |
8 |
| 69. I made a mistake getting together with the one I'm with (married or not) |
14 |
| 70. I will never get married |
9 |
| 71. I will never find a partner who is "worthy of me" |
15 |
| 72. I am not worthy of being loved by someone |
1 |
| 73. My children will not be well adjusted |
11 |
| 74. I am going to hurt my children |
10 |
| 75. I am going to hurt myself (or hurt myself again) |
2 |
| 76. I am a powerful person |
n/a |
| 77. I will be successful |
18 |
| 78. I will not know how to handle success when it comes |
7 |
| 79. I am afraid of people |
17 |
| 80. I am afraid of going outside |
n/a |
| 81. I am afraid of speaking in public |
12 |
| 82. I am afraid of being raped (or raped again) |
19 |
| 83. Other:___________ (see this list for some examples: http://www.phobialist.com/reverse.html) |
3 - showering in a bath with a curtain |
| *** I Prefer the Company of: *** |
| 84. Men |
5 |
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| 85. Women |
6 |
| 86. Teens |
1 - I feel more relaxed around people my age. |
| 87. Children |
4 |
| 88. Girls |
3 - I feel a competition with other girls. |
| 89. Boys |
2 - I feel more comfortable with the opposite sex. |
| 90. Elderly |
7 - I don't really like old people. |
| 91. Other:___________ |
n/a |
| *** I My Perfect World I Would Be: *** |
| 92. A Model |
7 |
| 93. A Singer/Musician |
4 |
| 94. An Actor |
8 |
| 95. A Director |
9 |
| 96. A Manager |
10 |
| 97. A Mother |
6 |
| 98. A Bride |
5 |
| 99. Loved by Anyone |
2 |
| 100. Loved by Someone |
1 |
| 101. Find love that was real and lasting |
3 |
| 102. Other:___________ |
n/a |